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Simple Farm Wedding Absolutely Filled with Love

Our gorgeous weddings this week have something amazing in common: they are all about the love story, not the details. Our lovely bride Sara says “the whole day felt very intimate – due in no small part to the fact that some of our very talented friends helped put it all together. A childhood friend of mine was the DJ, another our officiant, and my officemate turned dear friend Dorothée Brand of Belathée was our photographer. Our friends Matt and Emily of The Corson Building curated a wonderful assortment of food and beverages, and the save the dates, invitations and menus were created by another friend, Danielle Bellert of BDR-studio. We are so lucky to be surrounded by such gifted and generous people.” It is seriously inspiring that this couple didn’t get caught up in ‘all things wedding’, but kept it totally authentic to them, and it really shows in every aspect of their day. Which reminds me – be sure to read on for what Sara says she would do differently if she had to do it all again – it is so honest and one of my all time favorites answers!

Sara tells us the sweet story of finding what she calls her “not-so-expensive-dress”: “I was visiting my parents at home in Anchorage, Alaska the winter before our wedding and my mom and I went to a small wedding dress shop which featured many consignment pieces. I was not expecting to find my wedding dress in Alaska, but ended up falling in love with a piece that had been handmade by a local woman. She had originally made it for her daughter. Because Anchorage is a small town I contacted her and we began corresponding with each other – we’ve since shared many cards and phone calls and my connection to her made the dress feel that much more special.”
Sara paired her beautiful gown with her great grandmother’s veil, which has also been worn by her mom, aunt and cousin!

If you had to do it all over again, is there anything you would do differently? Probably! Ha! It’s all kind of a blur now, but of course no process is perfect and there were a lot of growing pains during the planning. Honestly it was probably the most difficult year of our relationship and I’m sure wedding planning had something to do with that. I think it was important for us to forgo the illusion that the planning would be romantic and magical. And it is amazing how any quarrels leading up to the wedding didn’t really seem to matter on the big day or after.

One of them was definitely walking down the aisle with our families. We opted not to have a wedding party but had our parents and siblings walk us down the aisle instead.

We didn’t want anything overtly religious, and we knew we wanted to write our own vows. We wanted it to feel sentimental but also a little light hearted. And nothing too long! We took cues from a lot of friends’ and siblings’ weddings, but pretty much wrote the script on our own. We tried to combine many of our favorite features from past weddings into our day.

We wrote our own! We wanted it to be a surprise for each other. The only thing we agreed on beforehand was that we would keep our vows around one minute. Hearing each other’s vows in the moment was by far the most special part of our entire wedding.

The wedding budget is definitely a slippery slope and it’s really easy to get carried away. This isn’t revelatory advice, but I would just recommend picking the things that matter most to you and spending your money on those and not worrying about making everything “perfect”. For example, I chose not to spend a lot of money on a dress but really cared about having beautiful photographs and flowers. And think of the guests’ perspective – guests will notice if you run out of booze, but they won’t notice if you didn’t put hand carved name tags at each seat!

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Glamorous Winter Wedding at The Battery

Seriously, I don’t think I’ve ever seen a winter wedding as cool as this one! Rachel & Dave married on their fifth anniversary at super cool members-only club The Battery in San Francisco. They incorporated romantic florals, fun nods to Dave’s Scottish heritage, and some bold, modern elements (like their acrylic stationery… and that dress!) which fit perfectly with the vibe of their luxe urban setting.

Dave wrote a cute poem on the bottom of my shoe, which was a total surprise and I loved it! Also, as one of Dave’s wedding gifts I made him a video highlighting all of our vacations together – it was something I had been putting off forever, so I think he enjoyed reliving those moments.

We wanted everything to feel comfortable and not forced, so we chose to forego a lot of the typical wedding traditions because they just weren’t us. The Scottish elements we incorporated (groom and groomsman wearing kilts, our bagpiper) were the most ‘traditional’ things we included. I did have something borrowed, something blue, a six pence, and a tartan garter from Dave.

We chose The Battery for our wedding and reception because the building and décor are stunning. Dave and I both work in construction and love history, architecture and design – The Battery has it all! The building was built after the earthquake in 1907 and sits in the middle of the city near the iconic Transamerica pyramid. The interior is modern and luxurious with rich colors, patterns and textures in each space. We were able to use three different spaces within the building for the ceremony, cocktails, dinner and reception, which gave our guests a change of scenery for each part of the day, without the hassle of traveling across the city.

Our wedding cake was one tier Lemon Zing and one tier Banana Bread Heath Bar. Dessert was included with the meal, so we didn’t find it necessary to have piece of cake for every guest. We had a small cake for cutting that served twenty-four – so those who wanted additional dessert were given a piece of cake.

 

 

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A Modern At Home Wedding in Michigan

Trust me when I tell you this is the ultimate modern take on the traditional dream wedding in your parents’ backyard. The bride’s parents’ Michigan property really did come with everything – including a gorgeous getting ready space in her parents’ light-filled home, a lush green backyard for their Jewish ceremony (officiated by the same rabbi who married her parents!), and a front yard with enough space for their stylish green and white reception… oh, and did I mention the lake, oh-so-right for sunset shots? Plus, it was the ideal backdrop for the bride’s chic look, in a Pronovias short sleeved gown with keyhole back and a tiny, elegant train. And it has to be said, we like a bride who knows good shoes (you had us at ‘white and spiked’, Mr Louboutin!)

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We signed a traditional Jewish wedding contract, a ketubah, before the ceremony. I also did something old (my grandmother’s diamond bracelet), new (my wedding dress), borrowed (a ring borrowed from my mother-in-law), and blue (my best friend gave me a handkerchief with a sweet message and our wedding date.)

Bride Alyssa tells us “we served prosecco and meat and cheese appetizers before our ceremony. We wanted everyone to be happy waiting for the ceremony and there’s not better way to do than with food and booze!”

My husband and I knew we wanted to write our own vows; I also knew I wanted to be married by my childhood rabbi. Since my husband didn’t grow up Jewish we discussed what we both wanted in a ceremony and what we were comfortable with and then met with the rabbi to discuss what readings made sense.

We didn’t have a wedding cake – we had mini Dairy Queen blizzards! Matt and I had a love affair with Dairy Queen in college and many of our friends and family know it’s a personal favorite. We also had some baked goods for people if they didn’t want the blizzards.

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Colorful California Wedding at Dawn Ranch

Color was second only to love on Megan and Evan’s wedding day! As the bride says, for her, color “exudes happiness” so there was plenty of it at their celebration. Bold colors, playful details (like paper airplane ceremony programs!), and a darling couple with mile-wide smiles make this charming wedding one you won’t want to miss.

Did you include any traditions in your wedding? I wore my great grandmother’s diamond and sapphire bracelet – for something old and something blue. I also had small pieces of lace from my mom’s and mother-in-law’s wedding dresses sewn into the train of my gown as a silent tribute to both sets of parents.

Why did you choose this location for your wedding? Dawn Ranch Lodge was the perfect venue to celebrate our love for one another while sharing the weekend with our family and friends in wine country. All wedding guest stayed in charming cabins on site throughout the weekend and were invited to attend the Friday night rehearsal dinner “I Do BBQ” – an evening topped off with burgers and s’mores around the fire pit for dessert. The bright rustic flowers, handmade bow ties and vibrant bridesmaid dresses were a tribute to our playful and authentic love for one another and my passion for color.

Neither of us are very religious, and felt that it wouldn’t be appropriate to ask an unfamiliar minister to officiate. Instead, we chose a very close family friend, for a non-religious ceremony. We chose Eric because he grew up with Megan, and their families shared many celebrations together throughout the years. It felt like a perfect fit. In addition, we felt his genuine personality and light heartedness was a perfect tribute to our relationship.

The feeling that we were sharing the most intimate day of our lives with family and friends who have supported us both individually and as a couple throughout many stages in life. It was amazing to have the love and support from the most important people in our lives from all over the country together in one spot.

Is there anything else that you’d like to share about your wedding ceremony? When each guest took their seat, they found a single river rock on their chair. We asked each guest to make a wish for our future together on the rock, and then collected the rocks at the end of the ceremony. They will eventually be used in the garden of our first home.

 

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Romantic Winter Wedding in Texas : Emily & Derek

We find it so refreshing to see a few winter weddings making our best weddings of 2017, and this moody Texas affair is no exception!

I honestly cannot get over how excited today’s sweet groom Derek is in this picture, and believe me, you’ll want to see the rest of the of this very special moment, so be sure to read on.) This couple’s oh-so-visible love for each other helped them to create a day that was warm, meaningful and personal, both for them and for every one of their five hundred guests!

And it was also pretty darn gorgeous – Emily & Derek took full advantage of the romance of wintertime and included dark green ferns, soft blush and lilac florals, plenty of candlelight and one seriously incredible oversized Christmas tree!

Some woman desire a fairy tale wedding, and I am definitely one of them! But if you’re not careful and get swept up in the details and logistics, you’ll find yourself unprepared on your wedding day for what it’s all about – you marrying your person. With that being said, enjoy it all, be creative, drink lots of champagne, have fun at the events leading up to the wedding, and don’t forget to cherish the one you’ll be standing with at the altar.

 

our wedding party was insanely large, we enjoyed every moment with the ones closest to us and have loved seeing them all together in our beautiful photos.” (And we just have to add that if you’re planning a winter wedding, don’t feel like you have to be restricted to deep, moody hues.

I had a very specific vision when it came down to planning the flow of the ceremony. It was important to Derek and I both that our wedding ceremony paint a clear picture of Jesus Christ and His Church as clearly as we could! We wanted our pastor, Tyler Hardy, to reference this as often as he saw fit and for our first act as a married couple to be taking the Lord’s Supper together. We wanted the worship to be life-giving and to refresh the heart and soul of every listener!

The entire cake was covered in deep marbled buttercream (a mixture of light grey and light peach) with flecks of gold.

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How To Use The Naturally Untamed Beauty Of Your Wedding In Idaho ?

In photos of the Rocky Mountains, it’s hard to make an epic wedding photo of every wedding photo you have.

The air quality of the couple’s wedding photos was partly due to wildfire smoke, and the talented megan Robinson captured the day with her camera lens.

From the Bride: I always wanted a gold dress, and I only tried on three or four dresses before I found the one I wanted.

My bridesmaids all got their dresses from different places! I just gave them a color to look for, because I wanted them to get dresses that they felt good in and would wear again.

We want everyone to see the beauty and experience of Idaho. We just want the landscape to talk to ourselves. We also hope it will be fun for all of our guests. Our goal is to create a complete weekend experience for them so they can relax and let go as much as possible.

We don’t want to disturb the scenery too much, so we try to minimize the decorations. We also very much hope that our friends and family to feel our attention, because they played such an important role in our life, and give us so much support, so their comfort and happiness is our priority.

Precious things are very few in this world. That is the reason there is just one you.

 

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Moody Outdoor Romance Wedding with Gorgeous DIY Flowers

When it comes to labor of love, we are really touched by their beauty. You can DIY your flowers, the bride from the box flowers, with the help of family and friends, they will see you will see each bouquet of flowers and central decorations are gathered together.

On this russet day, the bride wore a Spanish dress, especially next to the blue bridesmaid dresses.

We have a common love for the outdoors, so we get married outside, we just don’t know where. We designed for wedding design reflects our love of outdoor, also blended in a dark and moody colors, when we started looking for inspiration, I prefer outdoor woodland theme, and moody’s design. I also like the dark color, so I know I want our wedding, from all the flowers and flax, to the color of my nails and lips.

The flowers were our biggest DIY. My amazing bridesmaids, my mom, and a close family friend created the centerpieces, bouquets and everything else the flowers (from Blooms By The Box) went into.

We got married on Friday and had a rest at my parents’ house. The next day, most of the guests came back to eat, enjoying the happiness of the wedding weekend without any pressure. It’s good for my family and for us. It gives us time to spend with all of us, and let our excitement last for a day.

I fully understand that many couples can’t enjoy a full honeymoon after a wedding, but even after a few days in what I think is a super healthy place, both of you have experienced it. Like me, most brides (and perhaps the groom) spend most of their time planning the day.

 

 

 

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Colorful Florals at South Carolina Wedding

Sindy and Trey’s color palette has an array of shades and we totally love them for it! Not only did they dress their bridesmaids in the most radiant shade of blue, but the festive hues continued in WildFlowers Inc.’s bright creations.

Ava Moore Photography shared photos of peonies popping in pink, coral and orange garden roses cascading down the wedding cake, and succulents and mini pineapples dotted around adding a neutral softness to balance it all out.

With Sindy’s Honduran background, the duo wanted to make sure the colors reflected her heritage and it’s safe to say they went above and beyond! The whole wedding was sophisticated and elegant, but they really used the flowers to add eclectic dashes of color and everything came together beautifully in the end. Very cool!

From the bride, “Almost 10 years ago in August of 2007, all the freshmen at UNC were starting up classes and meeting classmates and future friends. We were each out and about one night with our friends… probably thinking that the last thing we would do was meet our future husband and wife!”

 

 

 

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tuscany destination wedding photographer

We can all agree that getting married in Tuscany is a dream come true. Whether you’re looking for seascapes along the Mediterranean or gorgeous vistas near Florence as a backdrop to your nuptials, Tuscany will never go out of style.

Booking a wedding photographer in Tuscany, a true Italian, will give your wedding day memories that little extra flair. With a knack for the moments, the real things, he infuses his imagery with Italian sunshine and romance all while preserving your wedding with a contemporary style.

Duccio Argentini’s passion for photography began early at age eleven and he hasn’t stopped since. Two hundred and fifty Tuscan weddings later, this Florentine native knows how to shoot the good stuff and puts everyone in your wedding party at ease, allowing you to enjoy your day and the memories that he captures ever after!

 

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A Beautiful Downtown Detroit Wedding

Today we’re bringing you their recent downtown Detroit wedding.

The ceremony took place at the gorgeous Sweetest Heart of Mary Catholic Church. Their wedding was captured among some of the city’s coolest backdrops like Detroit’s baseball stadium – Comerica Park, the Michigan Central Station, local street art, Monroe Street in Greektown, and a rooftop overlooking the skyline.